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In between my hot, steaming phonesex calls I found some time to celebrate Christmas as well! Not only did I share the normal gifts with my family, had a tree (with few ornaments after my ornaments got stolen from right in front of my house ) and went out for Chinese on Christmas day because I wasn’t up for cooking, I also found time to have my wonderful friend Robert tie me up in Christmas Shibari!

Shibari is the lovely Japanese art of using rope to create an intricate, sensual bondage experience. It can be used for example to bind someone’s hands behind their back, but one of the ways I have seen it used often, which is also very accessable for beginners into BDSM is to create a Shibari corset. I will not explain here how to make such a corset, a much better how-to is found in the work of the Two Knotty boys, have a look at this video, though the Shibari we used was a little different.

But now that you can see how to make one, it might not surprise you it is possible to make something a bit like that in Christmas lights! Since we didn’t want to make actual knots in the lights, for fear of messing up the electricity, we used bag ties to connect the christmas lights together in the right spots. So we also didn’t use the tight around the waist knots but we did use a Shibari technique to make me look like one of those super delicious pears safely resting in its protective net! Another string around my breasts shows a great example of Christmas Shibari bondage!

Would you like to be tied up in a similar way? Ravaged under the Christmas tree? Beaten up with one of those whippy ornamental candy canes (just as painful as a real cane!)? Why not give me a call or email me to discuss your fantasy for some hot bbw phonesex!

In between all the phone sex excitement I had a nice day yesterday, and time to have a lot of fun, because I got to play school mistress for a naughty boy! I was wearing my nice grey suit, and I had of course make sure the culprit would be disciplined severely. A friend of mine has a nice playspace in their garage with a setup just for school play, with a school desk which is pretty small, making the bad boy feel all uncomfortable as he’s trying to fit in the seat. It’s ideal for making him squirm.

I like starting my play with some actual math, and asking more and more difficult questions. Since I actually have also tutored mathematics and I’ve done up to Calculus in College it’s not too hard to arrive at a point where our student doesn’t know the answer anymore. Then it’s time to look at him sternly and tell him how disappointed I am. He should have learned how to do these problems for homework, and I cannot just let him get away with doing his work now can I? The hesitant and worried tone that answers such rhetorical questions is enough to make me smile and make it clear that our student really needs a punishment he will never forget.

I like using a lot of methods teachers used in the last century, like standing in the corner, humiliation, hitting with a ruler on the handpalm or fingers, and then of course there is the spanking and the paddle. Bare bottom of course, the humiliation of having to take one’s underwear and pants down is part of the punishment and brings the culprit in the right state of mind. Underneath you will find a picture of me standing in front of the student’s desk, unfortunately my friend was a little too shy to pose for the photo, but it should give a good idea. Why not give me a call if you’d like to be a naughty student ordered to bend over and grasp your ankles, or maybe you want to be the one making sure I will never forget the lesson again! Or for other ideas feel free to email me.

Sorry I haven’t been on BCB for a while! I’ve been dealing with oral surgery, which is less than exciting and makes doing hot phone sex really hard! But I’m expecting to be able to spend more time on BCB now and during the holidays I won’t have as much College to work on!

Now I am not a professional Domme (as in I don’t receive clients, though I do offer domination on the phone), but I do have a few slaves who serve me personally. I play with bottoms, subs and slaves, boys and girls, and any sub who wants to become my slave first starts out as my sub, and I test them. I don’t give out collars lightly, as I often see on websites, and my collars are real life things, that I want to watch my slaves wear when they’re serving me. I have both boys and girls as slaves, and usually they’re my slaves for the period they are with me and for specific times we agree on in their real life (for example how they are to do their grooming).

But I have one slave who is dreaming of a 24/7 and wants to serve me all the time, even when she is not directly near me. She has served me very faithfully and well for a few years, and I am going to collar her for my ‘full time slave’. So I have been looking for suitable collars that bring home to her that she’s my slave and that she can’t easily take off, but it also needs to be suitable for daily (and nightly) wear, because I want to know she’s wearing that collar all the time. For my other slaves I use leather collars with many D-rings that I can use for bondage or leashing, but that are not as suitable to wear while going out to a ‘vanilla’ (non-kinky) occassion. They are too recognisable. You also can’t wear them where they might get wet, because it would ruin the leather.

I have been looking at what is called the ‘Turian’ collars. This name for a metal ring type of collar that is locked with a padlock around the neck comes from the ‘Gor’ books by John Norman. I myself have done some Gorean training to familiarize myself with it, so I know what’s expected of their slaves, but since they do not believe in women dominating or guys being slaves, I have not subscribed to the lifestyle. I do like the rituals though and some of my girlslaves learn them to serve me gracefully, which I enjoy. The other thing I am thinking about borrowing is the Turian collar. I think the design is beautiful, stark and clear, and yet very hideable. The model I am especially looking at is this ‘teardrop’ covert collar by ‘rings of steel’.

It has the advantage that my slave won’t get panicked with something pressing on her throat, which I’ve noticed can make her very scared. This is good while we’re playing and I’m there to keep an eye on her, but not with a collar that she is wearing all the time, can’t easily get off and will also wear when I’m not present. And I like that it looks like a necklace, while to those ‘in the know’ the meaning will still be very clear. I will have to save up for it unfortunately, it is not cheap, but worth the money, and I saw that they’re handmade (and in the US, which I try to keep an eye on).

If you’re interested in playing a Gorean fantasy, with me as a kajira (I know the rituals and forms ) or with you as one of the rare male slaves, it could be fun! What would it feel like to have one of those Turian collars press around one’s throat? To be half naked in a place where everyone can order you around? Or to be able to give the orders and have all the power over your slave you could wish? If these thoughts also make you hot, why not give me a call or discuss your scene ideas with me in an email?